Is my penis too small? I have heard this question from numerous men over the years. Unfortunately, many men have a completely distorted perception of their penis size. Most men who have an average sized penis think it is too small. Even some men with an above average penis tend to believe that, or at most consider their penis size average. <\/p>\n\n
Average sizes of the penis and vagina<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n The average erect penis length is between 11.5 and 15.5 cm in most countries around the world. The length or depth of the vagina is given differently depending on the source, usually between 6 and 10 cm when at rest. If one goes by Wikipedia, it says the following: the length varies from woman to woman. In a study from 2006, the average length at rest in adult women is given as 6.27 cm, with measurements ranging from 4.1 to 9.2 cm. In the stretched state, the average is 13 cm (+\/- 3 cm).<\/em> <\/p>\n\n A penis of average length is therefore a perfect fit for the depth of a vagina in its stretched state. That is how nature intended it. At the end of the vagina is the cervix. If a penis is too long, it hits the woman's cervix during penetration, which usually causes pain. There are, however, some women who find exactly that pain arousing. A friend of mine once referred to it as \"cervix fucking\", and she was clearly into it. Of course, the cervix is not equally sensitive in every woman either. That means one woman may feel pain, while another barely feels anything at all. <\/p>\n\n How porn influences the male self-image<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n The reason so many men have a completely distorted perception of their penis size is certainly porn. I personally cannot relate to porn at all and do not find it arousing in the slightest. When I masturbate, which I usually do clitorally several times a day (I probably have the libido of a 16 year old boy \ud83d\ude05), I rely exclusively on my imagination. It offers far more than porn ever could. Yes, I know, the male brain works very differently in that respect, and I am tempted to call it more \"primitive\" \ud83d\ude09. There are quite a few reasons why I view porn very critically, and one of them is the completely false image it creates of the ideal penis size. <\/p>\n\n Men who have a very large penis but have not yet been able to gain much sexual experience and therefore have not received much feedback from different women often do not believe that it can cause a woman pain. When I once told one of these men that he had to be careful, he actually replied \u201cBut it works in porn too\". Well, there is a big difference between something working and something actually feeling good, and porn actresses often have to hide their pain as well. Unfortunately, that is part of their job. They are not fucking for pleasure, but for the camera. <\/p>\n\n If a man were to tell me in his date request that his penis is around 20 cm long, I would reply that I cannot accept the date if he also wants penetration. Rather than be in pain or have the man constantly having to make sure he does not go all the way in, I would prefer to forgo it. I have also had the experience that some of these porn penis men, despite assuring me beforehand, still do not pay attention during an escort date, probably because they usually have to be careful during private sex. And it is by no means pleasant when the cervix still hurts even the following day. <\/p>\n\n How such ideas arise early on<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n Unfortunately, the influence of porn goes so far that even as teenagers, we're conditioned to believe that a big penis is a great penis. This applies not only to boys, but to girls as well. When the first girls in my circle of friends started having sex during my teenage years (I wasn't one of them, by the way; I was still very well-behaved and only masturbated clitorally \ud83d\ude07), the question \"So, did he have a big penis?\" kept coming up. To avoid seeming \"uncool\" as a teenage girl, you don't say, \"No, he didn\u2019t, and I actually think that's much better because a big penis hurts me\", but of course, \"Yes, he did, it was great.\" As a woman, I have to say that we women are partly responsible for men thinking a big penis is great. But we only make such remarks because we are led to believe that and do not want to seem \"uncool\". Even I myself only started openly discussing this with other women in my mid-twenties, saying that I have the best sex with average-sized penises and that very large penises cause me pain. And as soon as you openly express this yourself, you very often hear from other women, \"Yes, that's the same for me\". <\/p>\n\n Average as the ideal size<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n What I really find unfortunate is that men with an average sized penis, meaning around 11 to 15 cm in length, often do not want to believe that this is actually the ideal size for penetration. Many think a woman only says that to make them feel better. In that case, it would be advisable to inform oneself about the average depth of a vagina in its stretched state instead of taking porn as a reference \ud83d\ude09. Generally speaking, men should learn a bit more about female anatomy, although of course the same applies the other way around. In my early twenties, I had sex over a longer period of time, at irregular intervals, with someone whose penis was certainly no longer than 10 cm. It did not bother me in the slightest, and my orgasms were neither fewer nor weaker than with men whose penis was a few centimetres longer. Good sex is not measured by the size of the male genitals. <\/p>\n\n Of course, there are also women who are particularly into very large penises and have no problem at all with a penis measuring 20+ cm, but they are certainly not the majority. I would like to point out once again that the average length of a vagina in its stretched state is 13 cm (+\/- 3 cm), according to Wikipedia. <\/p>\n\n What men with very large penises say about it themselves<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n Most men who have a very large penis, the kind commonly seen in mainstream porn, are not happy with it because with most women they have to be careful and therefore cannot fully let go during penetration. A few years ago, one such man told me during a date that he had booked me because I am so tall and he thought that would also mean my vagina was longer. Unfortunately, I had to tell him that a woman's height has nothing to do with the length of her vagina. According to their own accounts, it is often genuinely very difficult for such men to find a woman with whom they do not have to be careful. I would also like to mention at this point that fortunately I have so far met only very few men with a porn penis, so this is by no means a representative survey. <\/p>\n\n Small penis humiliation in BDSM<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n In the BDSM scene, there's something called \"small penis humiliation\". I'm obviously more than happy to participate in this, since I'm always game for any form of humiliation \ud83d\ude05. Big penis humiliation would, however, appeal to me far more. I really do find it ridiculous when a man is proud of the size of his penis, as if it were some kind of achievement \ud83e\udd26\u200d\u2640\ufe0f. There are many things one can be proud of, but penis size certainly is not one of them, since one has absolutely no influence over it. Above all, it says absolutely NOTHING about the quality of sex, and a vagina simply does not require a very long penis because of its own depth alone. The idea that a large penis is better is definitely a porn myth that people should let go of. Unfortunately, it remains very persistent. <\/p>\n\n Conclusion<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n In conclusion, I can only advise all men not to use porn as a reference point, although that advice does not apply only to penis size. But since penis size seems to be a very important issue for men, I am addressing it separately in this blog post. No, your penis is not too small!<\/strong> Men who actually have a micropenis may have reason to think about that, because in that case a woman really feels almost nothing. Fortunately, though, there are many other things one can do sexually. A penis is not required to bring a woman to orgasm, even though I can of course understand that a man may suffer from having a micropenis. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Is my penis too small? I have heard this question from numerous men over the years. 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